The Process

What To Expect

When you become a member of Gentlemen Only, expect to have a very personal, meaningful, and specialized experience. We care for our clients like family, and want all members to find the love they desire.


This experience is the opposite of the mechanical nature of apps and online dating. Gentlemen Only provides the human touch that has been lost in our modern dating world. We help men find love with other men that are of high personal quality and also have the same desire for a meaningful, long-term relationship. Gentlemen Only will start you off on a journey to find your perfect match with coaches to help you every step of the way.


Our top concern is to provide you with what you have been lacking from all the dating apps, and to avoid the waste of time and disillusionment of going through dating in LA on your own. We will provide a personalized, caring, and custom-made experience and will hold your hand through the process of finding love. We hope to be both your confidant and wing-person.

Our vetting system

If you would like to join as a Gentlemen Only member, please start by clicking here! We have a four-prong vetting system, that includes an in-depth questionnaire, an interview, a personality test, and a background check. This is to ensure that all of our members – yourself included – get matched with reliable, quality candidates. Once complete, we’ll set you up with an account so that you can purchase any of our packages or a la carte items.

Full Service Membership

For our members, we provide top-tier matches as well as a variety of a la carte services, depending on your needs. You can browse our pre-built packages through the link above, but keep in mind that if you’re not finding what you need we are happy to build out a custom package just for you. Just let us know! Click to get started today!